Friday, April 11, 2008

Text Messaging

My internet has been out for like a week. I'm not happy about it, so I won't go into it. So, I've been thinking about text messaging. I know, you're probably thinking to yourself - who is this kid, and why does he have time to think about things like text messaging? Maybe he should get a facebook account or something to fill his time - to this I refer you to my previous post. Anyway, text messaging. . .
I really like text messaging - it's a great medium that allows us to pass information quickly and efficiently. Simple statements such as: "Hey, I'll be home at 3," or "The jazz lost again" are perfectly conveyed through text. Things like this might be weird to say over the phone - I probably wouldn't call someone just to tell them that the jazz won, and if I did the whole conversation might last all of 29 seconds. This is one of the great joys of text messaging. Comments that don't necessitate a response are perfect over text, and those that need a simple one word answer are equally fitted to text.
Dating - I think that text messaging adds a whole new dimension to dating that was never there before my mission. A simple text from someone you have a crush on can go miles. To this day I can't think of anything quite as effective for a girl to do after a date to let a guy know she's interested as sending him a post-date text. Text-flirting is great - it knows few bounds - during class, while your roommate is sleeping, and other small moments are perfectly suited to text-flirting. One cannot but help getting the willie bejillies when the phone is pulled out and the screen reads: "One new message." It's almost like Christmas morning or sometime - is it from her? What does it say?
But, I do see some problems with text messaging. First and foremost - you sacrifice voice inflection for silence and ease. With the loss of voice inflection, a large dose of ambiguity is added. A simple message: "Hey, and don't be late this time." could be interpreted: 1) Hey, you were late last time, don't do it again (said in a stern, serious tone), or maybe 2) Hey, remember that one time we were joking about how you are always late, and now I'm bringing that up again just to be cute and hopefully make you smile, or maybe even 3) This is just a nice friendly reminder that we need to be on time.
This can be the cause for confusion at times, but at the same time I think it has it's awesome benefits as well. Just something interesting to think about.

3 comments:

Greg said...

yeah, it's crazy how technology is transforming the way we communicate. Back in our parents' days, they had to actually get on the horse and go ask a girl out face to face. And then the phone was invented. I'm sure there was some talk of how it's somehow less becoming because you don't have the respect of actually face to facing it. And now the phone is going out in place of texting and "writing on people's walls." (facebook). In many cases calling someone or even emailing them is considered "formal communication."

Stephanie said...

I agree. Texting can be good, but often gets overdone. Conversations are NOT for texting.

With dating, texting is good to let someone know you're thinking about them, but other than that, shouldn't be done. But hey, I married someone that asked me on a first date via a text (...it was only okay because it was him;).

LOVED THE FACEBOOK WRITEUP! I've been holding strong, but started considering it lately. I just hate to think about hours of waisted time I could potentially spend on the thing.

Rach, Mike, Allie and Hadley said...

I'm with Steph on this one. I am an Anti-texter because you lose all physical cues in communication and soon, everyone is going to just stay at home and never leave, having all forms of relationships via virtual reality goggles.
I am proud to say that Mike and I never texted during dating! Could be that Mike wasn't a cell-phone person as an undergrad, but that was quickly fixed!
I was once given a survey in the Benson Building while waiting for my TOTLP (Teachings of the Living Prophets) class about texting and dating and I was proud to circle the answer that texting did not have any point in my relationship. Yea!
But, now I have a BBerry and so I am somewhat more technology-reliant person.

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